Created by Nzinga Jackson, Emotional Intelligence Coach and Author of Loved By You.
You’re not “just tired”.
You’re emotionally exhausted from overgiving, overthinking, and being everything for everyone else.
You’re also giving your best love to everyone else.
When was the last time you gave your best love to yourself?
THIS IS FOR YOU IF:
You’re always the strong one.
You feel emotionally drained, but keep showing up.
You overthink and overanalyze everything.
You struggle to choose yourself without guilt.
And you’re tired of being the one who holds everything together…but feels like you’re falling apart inside.
You and I had something in common…
If you’re anything like the woman I used to be:
You’re always the one holding it together, but inside you feel overwhelmed and have to constantly recover from overstimulation.
You overthink everything and solutions aren’t enough unless they’re perfect or you’re worn out from trying.
You carry burdens that aren’t yours to bear and when you realize that no one is coming to your rescue, you feel abandoned.
Being the “glue” for the family
I called it…
But learned…
It was unnecessary self-sacrifice
Keeping the peace
I called it…
But learned…
I was afraid of rejection after confrontation
I called it…
Seeing things from all angles
I was riddled with anxiety with a splash of paranoia
But learned…
I called it…
Accountability and responsibility
It was a performance and perfectionism
But learned…
It was control due to fear of failure and it’s consequences
Making the right choice
I called it…
But learned…
I called it…
Nobody sees me or hears me
If any of the above statements resonate with you, you’re not trapped, you’re not broken, and you’re not weak.
You are trained.
Trained to put everyone before you as an act of love and trained to leave yourself off the list as an act of loyalty.
Everyone modeled my behavior of not seeing, hearing, and pouring into myself.
But learned…
IT’S TIME FOR CHANGE
If there was a simplistic yet effective way to unlearn the program of self-sacrifice in exchange for guiltless self-prioritization, would you do it?
I hope your answer is “yes” because the great thing about being trained is that you can be retrained to create a life experience that’s in line with who you truly are, but never get to be.
IN 3 WEEKS, YOU’LL GO FROM:
Emotional Exhaustion
Self-abandonment and Overgiving
Mental Spirals and Overthinking
Unprocessed Pain
Losing Yourself
TO:
Emotional Stability
Self-respect and Boundaries
Clarity and Empowerment
Emotional Release and Freedom
Knowing and Living In Who You Are
THE 21-DAY LOVED BY YOU CHALLENGE IS YOUR COMPASSIONATE, POWER-PACKED PATH TO EMOTIONAL HEALING, REGULATION, AND FINALLY CHOOSING YOURSELF WITHOUT APOLOGY.
HERE’S WHAT’S INSIDE
The 21-Day Loved By You Challenge:
21 daily guided challenges.
Reflection prompts that help you process in real time.
Quizzes and journal questions to help you deepen self-awareness.
Concept videos that help you understand the why behind what you’re feeling.
A structured path to emotional healing you can actually follow.
For 21 days, you’ll:
• Let each daily challenge lead you into spending a few intentional minutes with yourself each day
• Reflect without judgement
• Begin making small shifts that lead to real change
No rushing.
No pressure to be perfect.
Just consistent, meaningful progress.
Here’s how to join the 21-Day Loved By You challenge:
You’ve poured into everyone else. Now it’s your turn to choose yourself today.
Your 21-day transformation begins the moment you finally say yes to yourself by clicking the button below.
What People Are Saying
“I never realized that I could do what’s in the book for me too even though I was already doing it for others. The book gives me permission that I didn’t know I needed.”
“I had to take my time to really think about my answers for Day 2 Chapter 2. I didn’t see myself outside of what I do for the people I love and now I can describe exactly who I am with and without them.”
“I remember being on the call for the guided package and I was so blown away from the start! What really got to me was when you saw me and answered my question of why I’m still dealing with the same things in my life that I really want to stop. You helped me to realize that I was the same 7 year old and as you put it, “the same 7 year old making choices for a 45 year old”. ..talk about a wake up call and not once did you make me feel bad about it. You gave me truth and then gave me answers.”
Your Questions, Answered-
The Loved By You Challenge is a guided 21-day experience designed to help you understand your thoughts, regulate your emotions, and rebuild your relationship with yourself through daily reflection and practical tools.
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You’ll receive the full written experience, but this is designed to be applied daily, making it a structured emotional healing process, not just something you read and move on from.
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Self-Guided ($27):
Move through all 21 days at your own pace with full access to the content, prompts, and tools.Guided Experience ($67):
Includes everything in Self-Guided plus 8 live guided sessions and access to a private group so you can process and grow with support. -
Not at all.
The structure is designed for 21 days, but you can move at your own pace and revisit the content whenever you need.
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Most days take 10–20 minutes, depending on how deeply you choose to reflect however, there are two chapters where at least 45-60 minutes are suggested for completing the exercises.
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Live sessions are scheduled throughout the 21-day journey and are aligned with the most important moments of emotional processing. You’ll receive full details after joining.
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No.
This is a guided self-development experience. It’s not a replacement for professional therapy. The information, reflections, and resources provided in this book are intended for personal development and spiritual insight only. They are not a substitute for professional counseling, therapy, diagnosis, or medical care.
Nzinga Jackson and Happy Go Writing LLC disclaim any liability for outcomes resulting from the use or misuse of the material contained herein. Readers are solely responsible for their own mental, emotional, spiritual, physical, and all forms of well-being, and are encouraged to seek qualified professional support. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge that neither the author nor the publisher is responsible for decisions made in lieu of professional care.
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Email info@lovedbyyouchallenge.com as we’re here to help you feel confident about starting AND finishing your 21-day journey.